Posts Tagged ‘Jack Calhoun’

Selfless Service (Part I)

Friday, August 8th, 2008

I just had the remarkable experience of addressing about 1,500 people at the 31st Annual National Credit Union Director’s Convention at the Venetian Hotel in Las Vegas. This is a gathering of credit union leadership nationally and while it is fresh on my mind, I wanted to make a couple of observations.

First of all, I thought many times during the preparation of the speech, and again while presenting it, how extraordinary it is that a group such as this would dedicate a full session of their conference to the theme of “service.” Just knowing that and preparing for the session made me feel hopeful about the experience.

 Of course Operation Kids knows first hand that credit unions are a special part of the community. One of our largest and longest standing donors and partners is America First Credit Union in Salt Lake City. They believed in the vision of Operation Kids as a financial partner when other institutions did not, and we thank them.

I sensed a significant responsibility with this group of Directors. Since they committed the time to discuss service, I was most anxious to deliver a message with meaning and useful perspective on the topic. I found myself addressing the concept of “service” at a very basic level.

 Here was my premise:

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What is in a Name?

Tuesday, November 13th, 2007

I do a lot of reading in my work. I also meet a lot of incredible people who are passionate about children. It is the best part of running a children’s organization – the people.

It is truly amazing to spend every day in association with people who want to make a difference. It is a privileged place to be.

Sometimes, I have the wonderful opportunity to read something written by one of the incredible people with whom I am so privileged to associate.

Recently, I read an excerpt of a new book: Hope Matters: The Untold Story of How Faith Works in America, by Jack Calhoun, a renowned national authority on children, and one of our National Advisory Board and Whole Child Committee members.

His comments on giving children a name – a place, a sense of belonging – resonated very strongly with me.

In this excerpt, he recounts his experience at a conference of educators, pastors and ministers in Washington, D.C.:

“At one of our meetings, held in a junior high school in Southeast Washington, D.C., a minister presented. He described what his church was doing to help stem the tide of crime and delinquency, referencing Head Start, mentoring, family counseling, after-school programs. He concluded: “We also go out into the streets to simply get to know the kids by name.”

I was stunned. How wonderful, how powerful! For underneath the bravado of so many kids is the profound ache of not being claimed, named by anyone. So many youth act on their profound loneliness, their almost primordial need to belong. How simple, but how basic to be called by name: it is parental. We name our kids. It is love; it is protection—“you are mine.”

While serving as Commissioner of Youth Services in Massachusetts, I heard a juvenile murderer say something I will never forget, “Commissioner, I’d rather be wanted for murder than not wanted at all.”

Some thoughts require no elaboration.

I do hope this might have an influence on someone in their own home, in their own neighborhood and community. Next time you see a child on the street that you think may be heading for trouble, say “hi,” and call him or her…by name!